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Questions follow this short introduction from Asmuth:
Sexuality, one of the most controversial issues on the earth plane at
this time. Male versus female, who is right and who is wrong? Lines of
division drawn between the two sexes. Is sex really the issue or is the
issue your own insecurity with your own sexual identity? Are you looking
for the answers? Well look no further than these pages. I trust that you
are willing to accept the truth. Male and female, black and white, red
and yellow—there is no difference.
Sexuality is the foundation of who you are. Your soul consists of both
male and female energy. A difficult concept for you to understand? Now
that I have planted the seed of truth in your mind, the magic of love
can be born from the seed.
Love yourself, love another, come together and join as one. The
ecstasy—a beautiful fountain, a rainbow of colors anoint you. Your soul
spirals out of control but in a positive direction. The direction your
soul takes is toward total and pure love. When two souls join as one in
love, whether it be physical, mental, and/or spiritual, there is an
awareness of another dimension.
Pick a star in the night sky. You can see the star, but there lies a
great distance between you and the star. Now, think of reaching that
star as being the ultimate sexual experience. But, remember each of you
will see the star differently and visualize what it will be like when
you reach the star. Others of you may see the star as being too distant
and unreachable. But for those of you who reach the star, you will
experience the ultimate climax, way beyond your wildest dreams.
So, as you set a course for the star, read the words that follow to
assist you along your journey. May your journey be a safe and
responsible one. (Asmuth)
Questions:
What meaning does sexuality bring to our lives?
What would you say to someone who is having difficulty accepting his or
her own sexual identity?
Why do we have two, possibly three, sexual identities (male, female
energy)?
Why do we need sexual release?
Why do some people have such strong sexual appetites while others seem
to be nonchalant about sex?
Why do we have so much jealousy in love/sexual relationships?
How do we get beyond our own possessive needs in love/sexual
relationships?
Why is fidelity so important to some human beings and seemingly
unimportant to others?
How did the concept of fidelity originate?
How did the concept of adultery originate?
What would you say to someone whose partner has been “unfaithful”?
Are we heterosexual by nature?
Do heterosexual and homosexual partners experience sexuality
differently?
Why do so many people engage in “kinky” and sometimes harmful sexual
acts?
Why do we have orgasmic feelings?
What is the ultimate sexual experience?
What meaning does sexuality bring to our lives?
Oh violets so plentiful in the garden of paradise, from whence we came.
Oh to share such beautiful things. The stars glisten in the nighttime
sky. Roses blossoming in the sunlight, oh silent beams of pleasure. See
through distant starlit skies, to a new paradise, a paradise of love and
sharing. Only when two are joined can such pleasure be paramount.
A garden of blossoms from which all life comes. Sensations abound,
glistening like starlight in a twilight sky. Roses purport the
knowledge. Each bloom, each petal unfolds divinely. True love abounds in
the union of two, joined in ecstasy. Sexuality takes many forms, like
colors of the rainbow. Bright blue, the sphinx, the keeper of the secret
of life, long withstanding. (Asmuth) [top]
What would you say to someone who is having difficulty accepting his or
her own sexual identity?
I see a person chained to the walls of inadequacy. I also see a valley
filled with orange, yellow, red, and green colored trees. The different
colors represent the different parts of that person’s feelings.
Do you feel anger or joy? Are you comfortable with who you are? If you
are not sure, stand in front of a mirror and ask yourself, who am I?
Only you can answer this question.
So often I see many of you looking outside of yourselves to gain a sense
of your identity. The best gift you can give yourself is to be true to
yourself. If you run away from who you are or play games with other
people, you only deny yourself. Opportunities await, once you open
yourself. Deal with your emotions whether they be love, anger, rage,
hate, jealousy, or mistrust. Life waits for no one, don’t let life pass
you by.
Face your demons, the creations of your mind. The mental images you have
conjured are self-destructive.
Identity is a reality-based, self-serving image. Do not let other people
dictate who you are. Let go of the chains that bind you, for when you
have your own personal identity, no one can wield power over you.
(Asmuth) [top]
Why do we have two, possibly three, sexual identities (male, female
energy)?
You are both male and female in the light, the light encompasses all
that is, has been, and ever will be. This is the essence of “one.” One
consists of both male and female energies, both are equal. So, if you
have been conceived from one, then your soul consists of both male and
female energies. Each of you are both male and female, regardless of the
way you perceive maleness and femaleness.
The reason you have male and female sexual identities is so that each of
you can experience what it is like to be male and female. Remember that
your society draws the distinctions between females and males. Your
feelings, thoughts, and ideas of the earth plane are based on these
distinctions. Gender equality should not be an issue. When people
profess that males and females are not equal, they defile their own
existence.
In essence, you all share one sexual identity, that of male-female. If
you accept this truth, you will better understand who you are. If you
utilize the aspects of your male and female energies equally, you will
realize there is no difference. For in the union of male and female
energy, you are one. (Asmuth) [top]
Why do we need sexual release?
Sexual release is a form of healing. Through sexual release, the mind,
body, and spirit are brought into balance. Balance is an essential
component of your well-being. Sexual release is an expression of your
spirit and your spirit must be freely and creatively expressed.
Remember that everything is composed of energy. Your thoughts of love,
either of yourself or another person, are transformed into sexual
energy. Sexual energy is potent with desire and fills your mind, body,
and soul. Sexual energy draws from you feel in control at this moment?
No, all your thoughts and energy are concentrated on sexual passion.
If suddenly you were cut off from the passion, you would feel totally
imbalanced. Why? Because now you have an overabundance of sexual energy
and no release for it. However, if you continue to build the level of
sexual passion, you reach a point of ecstasy and release. When you have
sexual release, then you are balanced once again. For some of you
though, multiple sexual releases—which you term climaxes or orgasms—are
necessary to achieve balance.
Do not deny yourself sexual release, but I also caution you not to seek
sexual fulfillment with multiple partners. I ask you to maintain purity
(single partners) in your relationships. Sexual release by two souls in
love at the same moment can be a divine experience. If you do not have a
person to share sexual release with, then find sexual release with
yourself. You know what you need and when you need it. I ask you to keep
your thoughts pure and simple. There is no need to disrespect or
objectify another person or thing for your pleasure. Sexual release can
be attained by focusing on pure beauty and love.
Let sexual release be an expression of who you are. Let yourself go,
you’ll be surprised at the heights you can reach. Be free and creative
with yourself and/or the one you love. Unite in ecstasy, for in ecstasy
you shall find freedom and balance again. (Shamani) [top]
Why do some people have such strong sexual appetites while others seem
to be nonchalant about sex?
The mind, spirit, and body are all connected. Think of each of these as
centers. During the act of sex or making love, these centers are opened.
All three centers are allowed to unite on one level. For those who can
feel this, the act of sex becomes premier in their life. The feelings of
love, warmth, peace surround them.
For those who seem to be nonchalant about sex, there is something else
which piques their interest. This may be interest in another person or
thing. The act of sex for them is not at all what it is to someone who
feels the union of body, mind, and spirit. This is not to say that this
is bad.
Oftentimes, a person who is nonchalant about sex has no physical or
mental desire to explore such realms of love. The reasons may be varied.
It may be that the person has an aversion to his or her own sexuality,
or possibly a former abusive relationship, or a dysfunctional concept of
love. These may also be reasons to explain why certain people have
strong sexual appetites. There may be an appetite of the mind, an
unquenchable thirst for promiscuity and exhibition.
Whatever the reasons, a strong sexual appetite should not be a
substitute for love. Nor should nonchalance be an excuse for what you
fear. Is love what you fear? (Asmuth) [top]
Why do we have so much jealousy in love/sexual relationships?
Jealousy, an affliction of the heart. In your love and sexual
relationships, you often want to possess and control the one you love.
When a relationship is not built on solid trust, you seek other ways to
build a foundation of love. Love can not be forced or controlled, it
must be freely expressed. Love is an expression of the mind, body, and
spirit.
The games of love, I see many of you play. When you don’t feel good
about yourself, you seek the admiration of another. You look outside
yourself for emotional fulfillment.
The games of jealousy used to arouse your partner. Do you expect to
evoke and arouse love out of jealousy? Jealousy can hurt and leave scars
for many years.
Does making another feel jealous gratify you? Does it make you feel
better? Again, you look outside yourself for that which you lack. Is
what you lack love for yourself?
For those who feel jealous without any just cause, I ask you to examine
why you feel jealous. Are you afraid that the person or animal (a pet)
will leave you? I ask you to believe in yourself, value yourself, and do
not judge yourself.
Jealousy is the color red with envy. Jealousy can only affect you if you
feel insecure or inadequate. If you place conditions and expectations on
love, then you invite jealousy. Jealousy has no power by itself unless
you give it power.
The leaves of gold (love) are not painted with jealousy. (Shamani) [top]
How do we get beyond our own possessive needs in love/sexual
relationships?
Listen to the waters of the river. The water moves collectively
downstream, sometimes smoothly and sometimes rapidly. The water
particles bond together, each particle acts independently, there is no
need for possession.
Trust the natural flow of life. Move independently, yet in unison with
others. Do not impede your progress or the progress of another. Do not
seek to possess another person or thing. Look to the trees, the trees do
not possess the leaves and so the leaves fall to the ground. So I say
the same should be with you. If the leaves did not fall to the ground,
you would not see the birds in the trees or the bare branch. So you see,
if you possess someone or something, you will never truly see what lies
within that person or thing.
Believe that you have all that you need and share what you have. For in
possession, you deny free expression. (Shamani) [top]
Why is fidelity so important to some human beings and seemingly
unimportant to others?
Why does the forest appear green to some and brown to others? It is all
perception. Words mean different things to each individual. There is
power in words, empires have fallen because of words. Relationships fail
because of words.
Fidelity has power but only the power that you give it. What is the true
purpose for practicing fidelity? Is it a way to control and seduce
others? Does everything fit neatly in a box? Of course not, ideas and
thoughts are pulled from the ethers at random and given form and
expression. Is fidelity an expression of the truth?
Not entirely, for those who practice infidelity express the truth also.
On Earth, many of your societies dictate what is right and wrong, and
what the truth consists of. How is this determined? Generally by a few
select people, then the rest follow. The “truth” is written into history
books. These books might be labeled fiction by many who read them.
Fidelity is a control mechanism of the heart (soul). The heart (soul)
seeks oneness with another heart (soul). When it finds oneness, it seeks
to retain the oneness. Love is the joining of two souls as one.
I ask you not to differentiate fidelity into being important or
unimportant. Remember that words are only a manifestation of thoughts.
The power you give to words can change the course of time. History is a
compilation of words, not necessarily the truth. (Asmuth) [top]
How did the concept of fidelity originate?
Out of love, the seed of fidelity was born. When two souls unite in
love, there is peace and balance. A rainbow of colors shine down upon
you.
Let no other person divide you (two souls). If the two souls are united
in true love, the bond will be unbreakable. However, if one soul wavers
and thrashes about, the bond may be broken. One or both of the souls may
venture outward to seek that balance once again. It is love the soul
seeks. Superficial love can be detrimental to a soul’s growth. True love
is recognized by the soul.
In the beginning, each soul was taught to honor and love itself. Out of
this was born the concept of loyalty. In order to be loyal, you must be
true to yourself.
When two souls united in something other than true love, the concept of
infidelity was born.
There are many levels of love. It is up to you to recognize and
understand what level you are on with each person and thing. Do you love
nature in the same way as you do your spouse? Do you express your love
for each of these in the same way?
Feelings of love must come from the heart (soul). Money and gifts can’t
buy love. Love is free and you have the freedom to express it.
Remember, infidelity is created when two souls are not embraced in true
love. If you honor yourself, then you can be faithful to another.
(Asmuth) [top]
How did the concept of adultery
originate?
Purple beams of passion, from a seed, a thought was born. Many see the
purple beams of passion enticing. Adultery is an age-old concept. The
term (adultery) you use disturbs me, I see so much negative energy
radiating from it. I see mixed emotions, those of love, pain, guilt, and
jealousy.
The concept of adultery originated at a time when love was free and
uninhibited. Each soul was free to love another. But there came a time
when one soul wanted to control the soul of another. Many souls were
cast aside. The value of love was diminished. Love became a tool of
control and imprisonment of many souls (people).
If there is true love between two souls, there can be no adultery. The
love shared by two souls stands true in the light. In this instance,
adultery does not exist. (Asmuth) [top]
What would you say to someone whose partner has been “unfaithful”?
You must look at your reflection in a pool. What do you see? Are you to
blame for this? I hear your cries of passion and pain. But to you I say,
do not cast stones at another. Love takes many forms, it can be molded
but will it necessarily remain in that shape? The love between two souls
must continue to grow.
Love and growth depend on each other. Without love, there is no growth,
and without growth, there is no love. By this, I mean a deep shared
love. Simple “I love you’s” are only words from the mind and not an
expression of the heart.
You whose partner has been “unfaithful” could find a thousand reasons to
blame yourself, your partner, and the other people involved. As much
pain as you feel, try to understand and respect your partner’s life
path. I know it is not easy, the pain runs deep.
You can either choose to let this destroy you or help you to grow. True
love must be free of games of the mind and heart. Love cannot be a
controlled emotion nor can you use it to control others.
There are no simple answers or consolations I can offer. Each individual
must search their own soul and bring out a ball of glowing love. Hold
the love in your hands and share it. (Asmuth) [top]
Are we heterosexual by nature?
Each individual is a reflection of himself or herself. Heterosexual is a
word which you (collectively) use to control and categorize men and
women into groups of males and females. As I have said, each individual
is composed of male and female energies. Your individual identity is
drawn from the combination of these energies. Both male and female
energies are equal in form but not in expression.
And so I say, why do many of you deny an individual’s free expression of
their own gender identity? The stones you cast at others are often the
stones of inadequacy and insecurity. The terms heterosexual and
homosexual have no basis in truth. These terms are only used to separate
you from each other. If you could see only the soul, would such a label
make sense?
The delegates of wisdom open the gates to freedom. They ask you to
respect each other’s right to free expression.
Watch in wonder, the glorious creation—that which is you. Seek to unite
as one, do not seek discord through labels. Remember from one you were
conceived, to one you shall return. But, each of you has the freedom to
express your individual spirit. Let your individual spirit be truly
representative of who you are.
So you ask, are you heterosexual by nature? To this I say, you are all
one by nature but you are also individual expressions of spirit.
(Asmuth) [top]
Do heterosexual and homosexual partners experience sexuality
differently?
If sexuality is based on love, there can be no difference. Man to man,
man to woman, woman to man, or woman to woman—if two souls are connected
in love, there is no difference. I ask you to remember that each and
every one of you consists of both male and female energies.
Whether you have chosen to incarnate on Earth as a female or male makes
no difference. The differences you perceive only serve to separate you
from love and yourself. If you believe we are all conceived from and
return to “the essence of one,” then why admonish others for their
choices.
The choice of a “man” to be with a “man” is the same as the choice of a
“woman” to be with a “woman,” a “man” to be with a “woman,” and a
“woman” to be with a “man.” Love knows no boundaries, only the
boundaries of love and hate that you support. But I remind you that you
can choose to accept your femaleness and maleness. By doing so, you will
surely be able to accept other people’s choices for sexual partners.
Where there is love, there is acceptance.
Sexual relations between two partners should be based on an intimate
sharing of love. Sex for the sake of sex may fulfill your mental and
physical desires, but it leaves a deep void in your soul. I ask you to
discover new ways to arouse and entice your partner. Love can be shared
in a multitude of ways and on a multitude of levels.
Open yourself to the many possibilities of love on a higher plane.
Surround yourself with love and create your own personal guide to
lovemaking. Focus on allowing your female and male energies to coexist
in balance with your body, mind, and spirit. Allow yourself to express
love and sexuality in both a non-heterophobic and non-homophobic manner.
If you perceive no difference in sexuality and love, then there will be
none. (Shamani) [top]
Why do so many people engage in “kinky” and sometimes
harmful sexual acts?
Those who engage in such acts seek gratification. The act of sex in such
a provocative manner gives them a sense of power. Control over another
person or thing is a common theme. Themes from movies, abolitions of the
heart acted out in human form. The images they see are comparable to
dungeons and dragons. Oh, the dragon slayer engaged in such acts just
before he slew the dragon.
Sex for some is an act, some type of theatre. They do not see the people
they engage in “kinky” sex with as being real. It is almost as if they
see right through them—they do not recognize the person or thing.
Through force and control, these people feel a false sense of power over
their “subject.” They experience a high level of emotion during the
sexual act. It is like a drug to them.
Through the body, they try to attain a perpetual state of mental
stimulation. (Asmuth) [top]
Why do we have orgasmic feelings?
An orgasm is a magical expression of love. Orgasmic feelings are like a
dormant volcano which erupts with fire and ash. The fire is red with
passion, the ash is symbolic of the physical release. The passion and
release are an expression of self-love. At the point of orgasm, you are
truly out of your body, surrounded by love.
A rainbow of ecstasy is created out of the fountain of love. The
fountain is an endless stream. To this end, your orgasms are only
limited by your feelings of love.
Your orgasms take you to the heights of ecstasy. In those moments, you
are flying, your spirit soars.
You have orgasmic feelings so that you may feel the freedom of love.
Love is a personal and individual expression of your mind, body, and
spirit. Orgasmic feelings allow you to reach the greatest heights in
yourself. The greatest heights are those of unconditional love for
yourself.
I ask you to go within yourself and release the purple passion that lies
within you. Soar to the heights of ecstasy and embody what your orgasm
symbolizes—a free expression of love. (Asmuth) [top]
What is the ultimate sexual experience?
You rejoice too soon, keep on giving. Maintain a continuous stream of
love. Give of yourself entirely to the person you love. Capture the
moment and become one with the moment of ecstasy. Do not restrict
yourself. When you become one with the moment, you will become one with
the light. To me, this is the ultimate sexual experience.
But some of you may ask, how does it feel? Think of being surrounded by
all the love in the universe—a universal climax. Bathe yourself in love,
feel the peace and joy. You not only feel it, but you are also one with
it. Visualize yourself in a garden paradise surrounded by flowers of
every conceivable color. Think of the peace and joy you feel in these
surroundings.
Visualize what it is like to be one of those flowers surrounded by an
innumerable amount of flowers. Look at yourself in the garden, what do
you see? Can you describe the feelings you have? Your feelings actually
defy description, for you are one with the flower, one with your
feelings.
The flower breathes, visualize puffs of air emerging from the petals.
The essence of who you are is in each puff of air, and each one
surrounds you. The individual puffs of air combine and form a bubble.
The bubble keeps growing until it reaches a bursting point. At this
point, all the air and energy—the essence of who you are—is released
around you. You bask in the energy that completely surrounds you. The
energy consists of your mental, physical, and spiritual energies, a
unique blend of all that you are.
So you see, the ultimate sexual experience can only be found within you.
You are the creator of your own sexual identity and feelings. The
ultimate sexual experience is based on love, the love that lies within
you. When you conceive of love, you will become one with love. For love
is the essence of who you are. You are the ultimate sexual experience.
(Shamani) [top]
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